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Men's Mentor & Mindset Coach

Empowering men to deeper intimacy in relationships with women, cultivate unwavering confidence to speak their voice and master communication.



Welcome, I’m Evan.
Become an Unwavering man who leads from their heart!
As a Men’s Mentor, I am deeply dedicated to empowering men to help guide them to experience the relationship of their dreams with women, to play big in their career through taking fearless action, and cultivate unwavering confidence in their ability to lead and speak their voice. 
I have helped countless of heart-led leaders become the most magnetic and influential versions of themselves, so they can become a sought-after and trusted enabler of people and results. These men have turned their empathetic tendencies into their greatest assets, increased their capacity and resilience under greater responsibility, and now lead others to do the same.      


What is the work?

The Work

This type of work is for you, if you...

How these challenges may be showing up in your life now...

Why I’m being so specific is because all the above was me, and what my type of clients typically deal with.

You are not alone, and all the answers we seek are within us...

Sometimes we just need some support.

If you are interested in men's mentoring, you can set up a free 30 minute Discovery Call with me, just click the button bellow:

My Services

Work With Me

1:1: Mentoring & Coaching

As a Men’s Mentor, I empower men to experience greater intimacy in their relationship with women, lead with unshakable confidence and take fearless action in career.

I integrate coaching, mentoring, and energy work to expertly navigate you through my transformational process (Healing, Mindset & Masculinity). The goal is to collapse time and accelerate your progression from where you are now to where you want to be.



– Bring pain relief from past trauma, emotional experiences and carried shame, without having to re-live it

– Releasing of trapped negative emotions in the body

– Process and let go of any emotions you’ve suppressed / repressed, including anger

– To feel more connected to yourself and your emotions, and learn to manage them wisely, rather than being controlled by them

– Learn to set stronger emotional boundaries and let go of anything / anyone who no longer serves you

– To feel safe to express yourself freely and be yourself in any situation


– Discover and let go of unconscious blocks stopping you from living in your potential 

– Free you from your past conditioning and programming that’s still influencing your life 

– Gain greater clarity of mind in terms of what you want, who you are truly and your deep purpose

– Take back control of your thoughts and mind, so they work for you, rather than against you

– Grow beyond any fears that are in the way 

– Completely shift the way you talk to yourself

– Uncover the dormant qualities, gifts and inner strength yet to be unleashed in you


– Unlock and fully step into your most authentic masculine energy

– Develop an unwavering sense of calm, ease and grounding in any situation

– Cultivate the ability to make clear and quick decisions from a place of love rather than fear

– Enhance your ability to clearly communicate your needs, emotions and authentic voice

– Develop a greater sense of assertiveness in your beliefs, leadership and energy

– Foster the presence to hold space for others in their full expression of emotions, including the feminine

– Create deep intimacy with your lover / partner, and take responsibility for the direction and growth of the relationship

What your life looks like after doing the work…

– Overflow of energy and self-confidence
– Experience relief from pain and anxiety, feeling a greater sense of inner peace
– Enhanced workplace performance, developed leadership skills, and confidently express your voice.
Assertiveness in expressing your beliefs, needs, and leadership.
Radiating a deep presence with unwavering calmness, patience, and poise.
– Embody a greater influential presence
Enjoy deep, authentic, and positive relationships with those who appreciate you
Draw in your ideal partner and nurture a healthy, loving relationship.
Engage in work aligned with your values, making a positive impact and serving a deeper purpose.
Set healthy emotional boundaries, confidently saying no to things that no longer align.
Re-establish deep intimacy and connection with your partner, revitalizing your relationship and spicing up your sex life.
Approach decision-making with confidence and without hesitation, choosing from a place of love and self-assurance.
Live your healthiest lifestyle at your optimal weight, prioritizing overall well-being.

– Rediscover the joy in life and wear a smile that reflects your renewed sense of self.


Sessions are done Via Zoom. If  you wish to work with me privately in-person on the Gold Coast, Australia. Please send an inquiry to evan@evanspargo.com

If you are interested in learning more about my work, men’s mindset & masculine coaching, the packages and if we would be a good fit together, you can set up a free 30 minute Discovery Call here:

Client Testimonials

1:1 Mentoring & Coaching

This is for individuals who are serious about their healing, development and transformation. You will get full support from me on your journey.

Container’s are application only. 

Prices in USD.

1:1 - Monthly Container

$ 999 Monthly
  • 1 x 30 min Strategy Session
  • Weekly 1:1 Coaching Calls
  • Phone, IM & Voice Note Support
  • Weekly Check-in & Accountability
  • Contract Free

1:1 - 4 Months Container

$ 3000 Outright
  • 1 x Hour Strategy Session
  • On-demand 1:1 Coaching Calls
  • Phone, IM & Voice Note Support
  • Weekly Check-in & Accountability
  • The Ascension Community Membership (4 months)

The Ascension Men's Community & Mastermind

The Ascension is a men’s community and program, which installs a system empowering men to step into the most powerful masculine version of themselves and cultivate unwavering confidence, so they can:

– Experience unparalleled intimacy in their relationship with women

– Attract their ideal partner

– Master conflicts

– Take fearless action to catapult their careers or business

– Speak their voices unapologetically

– Influence and lead others through their own voice and wisdom

– Eliminate excessive bad habits such as people pleasing, self-criticism and self-sabotage

What is it?

This Mastermind was created to bring together heart-led men and leaders, who are on the journey of creating significant change to themselves and their lives in a supportive, non-judgemental and masculine environment. So you can positively influence, lead and use your voice to move mountains in your relationships, love life, career, business and environment.


Who’s it for?

This program is for conscious leaders, coaches, consultants and heart-led men:

– Who is ready to eliminate excessive bad habits such as people pleasing, self-criticism, avoiding hard conversations and not speaking up

– Had enough of constant conflict in his relationships

– Become increasingly influential in his leadership and inspire others through his voice

– Ready to stop hiding, instead play big in his life and career

– Take action he’s never taken before and build the habits to get him where he’s never been

– Successful in life, but feeling disconnected with himself and his partner

– Feeling like a lone wolf, seeking community and brotherhood

When is it?

The program is OPEN, it’s a 12-month ongoing community and program.

Those a part of my email list will get notified of the dates when intakes are open.


The Ascension Men's Community Membership

$ 100 Weekly
  • A 1:1 Private Call with Evan to map out your own personalised 'Unwavering Heart-led Man' system
  • Fortnightly Workshops with Evan & guest speakers
  • Weekly Hotspot Coaching / Q&A calls
  • Fortnightly Men's Circle
  • Access to The Ascension Training Library
  • Access to The Ascension Community
  • Discounted Private Mentoring & Coaching



If you’re looking for a seasoned speaker or a workshop facilitator for your next event.

I specialize in presenting topics about in the Workplace, New Age Leadership, Confidence Building, Corporate Wellness, Personal Development & Wellbeing, Mindfulness, Mindset Performance, Resilience Building, Mental Health Awareness & Management, and Men’s health.

My approach is to learn what you stand for as an organisation, your needs and any topics of relevance, in which needs to be addressed. I create a tailored presentation where the messaging is directed towards your team specifically, their current situation and specific needs. I aim to cultivate an interactive, energetic and practical atmosphere for your team.


Speaker Testimonials

About Me

Hi, my name is Evan.

Yes, I can share all my credentials, achievements, qualifications here etc, but in a world that is full of noise, I’d rather be real with you first.

I grew up painfully shy, abnormally quiet and a self esteem as flat as a pancake.

Perfectionism, people pleasing (being “Mr Nice Guy”) and over-achieving was my way of dealing with my inadequacies and lack of self worth. I believed that these were the only ways to be validated, to be accepted and to be loved, because I believed deep down that I wasn’t enough.

Self criticism, passive aggression and bottling up emotions were the only ways I dealt with pain, conflict and shame.

As soon as I discovered the gym and realised I could be a decent athlete, I started getting attention, and it felt so good and addictive, so I pursued a life that lead me to more of it. I became a model, tried to get into the limelight and onto TV, I tried to win every award I could in sport, I would say yes to anything, just so I could be recognised and be validated that I was good enough by others. At the same time, all the internal issues and wounds kept being pushed deeper and deeper into my subconscious, which started to play out in dysfunctional ways, predominantly through alcohol abuse and the way I treated to myself.

Leaving me unhappy, self loathing, in work that wasn’t aligned, no money and with no real purpose. Distractions and attention was my purpose.

It wasn’t until in my late 20s, where I hit rock bottom, I had no motivation to get out of bed, my parents were paying my rent, and I couldn’t pull myself out of the negativity of self-hatred I had built up over a lifetime, was when something seriously had to change. I started working with a coach, did a few seminars that made me confront my dark side, and something finally clicked…

I had complete control over my reality, it was my responsibility of how I felt and what I believed I deserved. I realised I had self limiting beliefs since childhood such as I am not worthy or good enough for who I am, resentment towards myself and my parents, avoiding many conversations that needed to be had, and more importantly avoiding my true self that wanted to be heard. So I went and started doing the inner work, having those uncomfortable conversations, and learning to finally take responsibility for what I was in control of.

It was at this pivotal moment, I felt a new sense freedom and a peace I never experienced before, and it was at this point I decided to become a coach. I FINALLY found my true calling, and felt a deep desire to help others to take ownership of their lives and experience what I had experienced.

For the past 5 years I’ve dedicated my life to continuous coach training, studying the many ways that humans think, operate and how we get in our own way unconsciously, to what creates long-lasting change within us, combined with doing all the deep inner work myself.

The biggest lesson I learned and I believe my life’s mission is of self acceptance, worthiness and authenticity. To heal myself and to help others heal themselves, and to no longer live our lives unconsciously. As most of my issues and dysfunctional behaviour came from an inability to accept myself fully – both the light and the dark (shadow) sides of me, to believe I am worthy as I am and to fully express my authentic self.

I had spent my whole life hiding my true self in fear of rejection, when in fact my true self is where my greatest strengths lie, where all our greatest strengths lie, but also our imperfections which make us gloriously messy human beings.

Today, I am privileged to help men from all around the world as a men’s mentor, who want to experience the relationship of their dreams with women, take the next level in their career through taking fearless action, and cultivate unwavering confidence in their ability to lead and speak their voice.

If this all resonates with you, come join me on amazing this journey!

Qualifications & Experience

Master Certified Coach (MCC)

Credentialed via International Coaching Federation (ICF) (200+ hours training / 2500+ hours coaching)

Certified Emotion Code Practitioner (CECP)

Emotion Code Energy Healer certified through Discover Healing

Certified Transformational Master Coach

Coach Masters Academy (225+ hours training / 90+ hours supervised practical coaching)

International Coaching Federation (ICF) Mentor Coach & Training Facilitator

Trained, Certified and Mentored hundreds of coaches since 2020 – Coach Masters Academy

Undergraduate Degree in Exercise Sports Science & Commerce Majoring in Sports Management

Standard Mental Health First Aider, with Mental Health First Aid Australia  

Certified Personal Trainer – Certificate 3 & 4

Former International Athlete

 Philippines Men’s National 7’s Rugby Teams

Every new journey begins with a first step

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