Mindset Coach

Empowering you to get out of your own way in becoming the person you want to be.

MASTER CERTIFIED COACH

Welcome, I’m Evan.
Are you ready to become who you desire to be?

I’m a Master Certified Coach and my real passion and specialty lie in helping individuals to get out of their own way in order to become the person they want to be. To accept, heal and thrive as their true authentic selves.

With over a decade of experience as a Personal Trainer, a former International Athlete and now as a Professional Coach, I’ve worked with thousands of individuals and trained hundreds of aspiring coaches worldwide.

My work is a reflection of my own growth, the countless hours of science-based coach trainings, the many modalities I’ve experienced, my connection to source and the thousands of conversations I’ve had helping my clients.

I believe what we experience in our outer world is a reflection of what’s going on in our inner world. What we attract into our lives, is a reflection of what we believe about ourselves. It all starts from what you believe about YOU and the conversations you have with YOU.

I’ve found the more we discover about ourselves, the more we learn to accept ourselves. In the process of acceptance, we begin to heal parts of ourselves that we have neglected or have been hurt. As we heal, we begin to embody our authentic self, and this is where true confidence comes from. It’s where we truly can become who want to be and thrive in that being.

All the answers we seek are within us.

About Me

Hi, my name is Evan.

Yes, I can share all my credentials, achievements, qualifications here etc, but in a world that is full of noise, I’d rather be real with you first.

I grew up painfully shy, abnormally quiet and a self esteem as flat as a pancake.

Perfectionism, people pleasing (being “Mr Nice Guy”) and over-achieving was my way of dealing with my inadequacies and lack of self worth. I believed that these were the only ways to be validated, to be accepted and to be loved, because I believed deep down that I wasn’t enough.

Self criticism, passive aggression and bottling up emotions were the only ways I dealt with pain, conflict and shame.

As soon as I discovered the gym and realised I could be a decent athlete, I started getting attention, and it felt so good and addictive, so I pursued a life that lead me to more of it. I became a model, tried to get into the limelight and onto TV, I tried to win every award I could in sport, I would say yes to anything, just so I could be recognised and be validated that I was good enough by others. At the same time, all the internal issues and wounds kept being pushed deeper and deeper into my subconscious, which started to play out in dysfunctional ways, predominantly through alcohol abuse and the way I treated to myself.

Leaving me unhappy, self loathing, in work that wasn’t aligned, no money and with no real purpose. Distractions and attention was my purpose.

It wasn’t until in my late 20s, where I hit rock bottom, I had no motivation to get out of bed, my parents were paying my rent, and I couldn’t pull myself out of the negativity of self-hatred I had built up over a lifetime, was when something seriously had to change. I started working with a coach, did a few seminars that made me confront my dark side, and something finally clicked…

I had complete control over my reality, it was my responsibility of how I felt and what I believed I deserved. I realised I had self limiting beliefs since childhood such as I am not worthy or good enough for who I am, resentment towards myself and my parents, avoiding many conversations that needed to be had, and more importantly avoiding my true self that wanted to be heard. So I went and started doing the inner work, having those uncomfortable conversations, and learning to finally take responsibility for what I was in control of.

It was at this pivotal moment, I felt a new sense freedom and a peace I never experienced before, and it was at this point I decided to become a coach. I FINALLY found my true calling, and felt a deep desire to help others to take ownership of their lives and experience what I had experienced.

For the past 5 years I’ve dedicated my life to continuous coach training, studying the many ways that humans think, operate and how we get in our own way unconsciously, to what creates long-lasting change within us, combined with doing all the deep inner work myself.

The biggest lesson I learned and I believe my life’s mission is of self acceptance, worthiness and authenticity. To heal myself and to help others heal themselves, and to no longer live our lives unconsciously. As most of my issues and dysfunctional behaviour came from an inability to accept myself fully – both the light and the dark (shadow) sides of me, to believe I am worthy as I am and to fully express my authentic self.

I had spent my whole life hiding my true self in fear of rejection, when in fact my true self is where my greatest strengths lie, where all our greatest strengths lie, but also our imperfections which make us gloriously messy human beings.

Today, I am privileged to help leaders, high performers and individuals from all around the world who want to take ownership of their lives and create personal change, to become the person they were destined to be, by finding acceptance within themselves and to heal old wounds, to embody their true worth and express their truth, in a way that’s authentic to them. To embody true self confidence and thrive.

If this all resonates with you, come join me on amazing this journey!

Qualifications & Experience

Master Certified Coach (MCC)

Credentialed via International Coaching Federation (200+ hours training / 2500+ hours coaching)

Certified Transformational Master Coach

Coach Masters Academy (225+ hours training / 90+ hours supervised practical coaching)

Undergraduate Degree in Exercise Sports Science & Commerce Majoring in Sports Management

Standard Mental Health First Aider, with Mental Health First Aid Australia  

Certified Personal Trainer – Certificate 3 & 4

Former International Athlete

 Philippines Men’s National 7’s Rugby Team

What Drives Me to

The Work

We are born whole, worthy and loveable.

However, throughout life we collect beliefs, rules, stories, expectations and social constructs that dictate the way we think, feel and act. They start to shape the way we see ourselves, our identity, and how we fit into this world we live in.

If we don’t become aware of what’s not ours, they start to determine the results we experience, how we feel about ourselves and we are left living life unconsciously ruled by them.

We notice we aren’t being fully who we were born to be, living a life we don’t truly want but think we should, suffering in silence, living with fear and doubt, constantly triggered emotionally, all the while suppressing our true selves in order to ‘fit in’. 

Most people don’t know what they truly desire, and why they exist. They don’t really know who they are, why they feel the way they do, and why things keep falling apart around them, or not able to make any change. Many of us don’t feel confident in ourselves.

In saying all that, we have the power to completely change all of this…

Coaching will help you to (just to name a few):

– Uncover unconscious thoughts, limiting beliefs, behavioural patterns, internal blocks, emotions and narratives that are negatively impacting your life and stopping you from getting what you want

– Discover all parts of yourself, including the shadow, and to accept, heal, integrate them in a healthy and powerful way that serves your highest good

– Connect you to your own intuition and body wisdom to find all the answers you seek, and what you truly want / need

– Better manage stress, anxiety and worry, by understanding the origin and tools to overcome them

– Create new healthy thoughts and behaviours that is aligned to who you want to become

– Improve the relationship you have with yourself and others

– The courage to face your fears

– Cultivate a higher self esteem and self confidence

– To adopt a growth and strong mindset that optimises personal and professional performance

– To fast track becoming the person you want to be

 

The Modalities I use is a mixture of Transformational Coaching, Positive Psychology, EQ, Shadow work, Inner Child work and various other personal development theories.

 

This coaching is for you... (I'm going to be real specific here)

Why I’m being so specific is because all the above was me, and what my type of clients typically deal with.

You are not alone, and all the answers we seek are within us...

Sometimes we just need some support.

If you are interested in learning more, you can set up a free 30 minute Discovery Call with me, just click the button bellow:

My Services

Work With Me

One on One
Coaching

Together we will walk a path of self discovery, to learn about what may be holding you back from living in your potential and as your authentic self, then freeing you of your limitations. Alongside, uncovering dormant qualities, gifts, wisdom and inner strength that are yet to be unleashed in you, so you can start living as your highest self.

You will gain greater clarity of mind, in terms of yourself, direction and purpose. Learnt to accept all parts of who you are, embody the worthy being you inherently are and heal the wounds still unconsciously affecting your life. To take back control of your thoughts, mind, emotions and connect to inner spirit to experience personal freedom and live the life you have always wanted to live.

Sessions are done Via Zoom. If  you wish to work with me privately in Melbourne, please send an inquiry to evan@evanspargo.com.

If you are interested in learning more about my work, coaching, the packages and if we would be a good fit together, you can set up a free 30 minute Discovery Call here:

1:1 - Deep Dive

In this 90 minute session, we dedicate a deep and intentional dive into a specific area of yourself that you would like to explore.

The aim of this session can be to learn as much as we can about any unconscious limitations, patterns and barriers that you may have and finally freeing yourself of these, right through to co-creating a comprehensive framework and shift of mindset to help you achieve your personal and professional goals.

Walking away with clear direction and purpose.

Investment: USD $180*

*Bank transfer available for those in Australia

1:1 - 3 Month Package

I believe change doesn’t happen overnight, it  happens over a period of time. Studies show that it takes an average of 66 days, more than two months to form a habit. 

In these three months we will deep dive into one key area of your life that you would like to create change in. A process of awareness, healing, learning, integration and execution.

What to expect:

– Getting clear on what you want to achieve in a specific area and who you want to become

– Gaining awareness around what are the unconscious limiting thoughts, emotions, fears, behavioural patterns blocking you from achieving what you want (self saboteurs)

– Learn to manage triggers, emotions and thoughts that overpower you, and so you can better show up

– Begin healing parts of you that remain wounded, which you may be unaware of that may be affecting you beneath the surface

– To outgrow old ways of being, and start thinking, feeling, acting and being the person who you want to be, to achieve the life you have always wanted to live

– Truly embody your wonderful and worthy authentic self

– Tools to stay out of your own way

 

What’s included:

– 6 x 1 hour sessions

– 1 x  45 min initial strategy session

– Full Instant Messenger Support (Business Hours)

– Journal Prompts + Homework

Your Investment: USD $999*

*Payment plans available & bank transfer available for those in Australia

 

1:1 - 6 months Package

For those who want the full experience and want a more comprehensive transformation, six months is when things get serious and the magic happens. We start to see new positive habits form and stick, new ways of thinking, a healthier relationship to self and others, a completely different you to who you were six months ago.

In these six months we will deep dive into several key areas of your life that you would like to create change in. A process of awareness, healing, learning, integration and execution.

The focus here will be a more ‘whole’ approach, looking more at you the person.

In addition to the 3 months, here is what else to expect:

– An increase capacity to take on more mentally, physically and emotionally

– A greater sense of self acceptance and appreciation of self

– A greater awareness of own emotions and the important role they play in your life

– A renewed and more authentic confidence

– Create a greater safety within yourself to share your gifts, strengths and authentic self

– Courage to face fears

– Become more calm, present and at ease within self

 

What’s included:

12 x 1 hour sessions

2 x 45 min initial & check-out strategy session

Full Instant Messenger Support (Business Hours)

Journal Prompts + Homework

Your investment: USD $1888*

*Payment plans available & bank transfer available for those in Australia

 

Speaker


If you’re looking for a seasoned speaker or a workshop facilitator for your next event.

I specialise in presenting topics about Coaching in the Workplace, New Age Leadership, Confidence Building, Corporate Wellness, Personal Development & Wellbeing, Mindfulness, Mindset Performance, Resilience Building and Mental Health Awareness & Management.

My approach is to learn what you stand for as an organisation, your needs and any topics of relevance, in which needs to be addressed. I create a tailored presentation where the messaging is directed towards your team specifically, their current situation and specific needs. I aim to cultivate an interactive, energetic and practical atmosphere for your team.


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